The heavy-duty Chemo treatment happened on Wednesday. Two days later I received my own stem cells, newly regenerated, without the pesky cancer cells. Friday, June 30, 2017, became my “new” birthday.
I’ve never been particularly wary of germs. I’m one of those who will contentedly eat food that has fallen to the floor, or a week-old refrigerated pizza that has a similar cellular make up to the box it came in. I’ve eaten alligator, rattlesnake and crickets, in quirky restaurants. None were particularly tasty, but I ate them.
Through the years, I’ve had infections, viruses and stomach ailments, but nothing dissuaded me from eating whatever I chose.
I may now have to reconsider. As I understand it, all the diseases that I have developed an immunity for, are back in play. I will have vaccinations for measles, mumps, chickenpox and whatever malady’s may have been cured during my lifetime.
Additionally, I have no on-board immunity for the cold that I had in 1969, the flu during the winter of 1983 and the stomach ailment from 2001. (I don’t really remember the dates, but there have been a lot of them.)
I’ve been in isolation on the eighth floor of the hospital for 6 days. I have wandered the halls (with my facemask) and peered out all the windows. Each patient room has a window, but per my recognizance, there is no view of a single blade of green grass. From the community kitchen window, I can look up and see a small triangle of blue sky. Other than that, all we can see is other high-rise buildings.
It’s Independence Day, so there will be fireworks at Herman Park this evening. There’s a good chance that I will be able to see the colors reflect in the sky.
On the Fourth of July, 1986, my daughter Stefannie was six years old. Her mother Lori and I, were visiting my parents in New York Harbor. We were staying on board the Blue Lady, my Dad’s 52’ Tayana cutter rigged sailboat.
The Statue of Liberty had gone through a two-year reconstruction process and the unveiling was to be that night. Apparently, the three major fireworks companies that had heretofore, been unable to speak to each other, laid down their animosities to create the biggest fireworks display in history.
There were north of 10,000 vessels in New York Harbor that day. Included were the Eliza sailing ship from Galveston and the John F. Kennedy aircraft carrier that looked like a small city on water.
Boats of all varieties, conditions and ages were trying to settle in for the big show. We dropped anchor mid-afternoon and waved at the neighboring boats.
Later, a fancy Cigarette boat rumbled in close. He rounded up into the wind, went to the foredeck and threw out a small anchor on what appeared to be about 40’ of rode. He grabbed the fantastic piece of eye-candy in the skimpy bikini and went below. We assumed that he had exhausted himself and needed a nap.
Any sailors reading this story that have knowledge of New York Harbor, started laughing a couple of sentences ago.
I said that he threw out an anchor on 40’ of rode (rope). New York Harbor has an average depth of around 50’ and our spot had about 70’ of water. That meant that the Cigarette Boat anchor was gleefully hanging below the boat making no contact with the bottom.
The boat began to slowly drift down-wind and ten minutes later wrapped his anchor line around that of another boat. Now, the two boats started drifting toward a third boat.
The third boat was a 30’ cabin cruiser with an owner that appeared, from my perspective, to be the quintessential Jewish New Yorker. The language and volume and creativity were priceless.
The Cigarette boat owner, now rousted from his activities, was doing his best to understand what had happened. It took another half hour for all the bumpers to get untangled, all the insurance and owner information to be exchanged. The Cigarette boat rumbled off to a different spot.
Stefannie had an exciting day. She managed to stay awake, engaged and alert until about 30 minutes before the biggest fireworks display in history.
Then…she fell asleep.
Happy 4th, Jay! I know it’s not the happiest you’ve had, but it’s another one under the belt! I would love to bring you a swatch of green grass to share with the group up there, but is that allowed? Looking forward to your progress report!
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Jay I believe you got the gift of writing from your dad. Very nice and thanks for sharing. I am praying for complete healing and strong immunity. Ann
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Hope you get to at least see some color in the sky..or you may follow in Steffanie’s footsteps and fall asleep 30 minutes before the fireworks.
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Jay:
Forget the landscape gig. Put music on the back burner too. Lee and I agree…. Jay is now a professional blogger.
We signed up of course to receive JAY BLOG as soon as we were able.
After the very smooth teaser featuring a total review of the good and bad shopping carts of the world we were both hooked. The birthday blog did not disappoint.
My game is to see if I can guess what curves Jay may throw me on the next blog. I must admit that I can guess pretty close. I feel a slight unfair advantage since I have been a student of Jay for so long. That combined with my day job of herding landscapers this way and that gives me plenty of practice.
I will look forward to the rumored addition to the Jays World cast of characters. I hope that the talking horse will be a favorite along with Mr. WILSON.
Of course, of course !
Until we meet again……
Mr. W
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Hi Jay. It’s amazing that I was in New York in ’86 for the Tall Ships & 100th Birthday of Statue of Liberty. The T-shirts read “every 100 years a Lady needs a facelift!” Were Mother & Daddy there also? I remember finding the Elisa and looking for you all pre the ease of cell phones in every hand.
I remember also being secluded on that floor and Walt Dill saying hopefully someday this event will be a memory. His event was Viet Nam.
Thirty years ago there was grass and sky. Yikes. I do remember switching out a sailboat picture from an empty room for Mother at MDAnderson.
Love you!
Cindy
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In my defense, it had been a very exciting day and I was very small.
I do remember wearing a foam-rubber hat shaped like Lady Liberty’s crown, watching the firefighter boat spray huge arcs of water just cuz it could, and somebody pointing to this ginormous grey boat (the aircraft carrier?) and telling me President Regan was on board.
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